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Phyllis Carlin, Miami's avatar

Beautiful, & thanks!

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Thanks Phyllis!

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Jack Dixon's avatar

This is gold: "Just don’t make the mistake of writing to fit in."

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Thanks Jack!

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Blossom's avatar

Okay so I need to figure out how to condense this and hang this next to my laptop. I love this!!

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Oh thank you!

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Eva Aning's avatar

“Fear is an indicator of where to go.” love that!

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Alex Mathers's avatar

you got it Eva

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John Loewen's avatar

I like this one:

"if the reader would benefit more from knowing that you don’t know, tell them you don’t"

Well said. Really tough skill to master, not often implemented, brilliant if done well.

Thank you for sharing.

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Thanks John - not always easy

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Francis Ekwunife's avatar

Nice read.

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Thanks Francis

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Linart Seprioto's avatar

On writing even if you don't know everything, I think it's so important to realize that. Because the point of writing isn't to just share ideas, it's also to find them. By offering yourself to the page, you're allowing yourself to create connections on what you know and discover insights you haven't seen before.

I highlighted so much from this essay, Alex. I'm glad I found you and your writing.

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Thanks Linart! Appreciate that

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Mikey Seay's avatar

This is brilliant stuff. I feel like I will need to read this every day before sitting down to write

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Appreciate you Mikey

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Tara's avatar

Thanks for these tips! I love the one about action mattering more than talent.

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Alex Mathers's avatar

you got it Tara!

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Istiaq Mian's avatar

So much good stuff in here Alex. Bookmarking your post, wish I had your words earlier on but glad to find them now. I’m a fan of your work.

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Alex Mathers's avatar

You got it Istiaq, welcome

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Rose Lusin's avatar

Sometimes I do fear to write about certain topics in order not to say something false. But as I have been thinking more and reading this post, I feel more encouraged.

You're right when you say that we don't know everything, so we shouldn't pretend like we do.

Thank you for this uplifting post!

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Glad to hear it Mal! Keep writing!

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Braeden Mitchell's avatar

I feel the same way about people who brag that they've been driving for x years. Great, that doesn't mean you're a good driver, it just means you've been operating a vehicle for that long. If we don't actively strive to do better in one way or another, we will remain stagnant, we'll make the same mistakes over and over, and as you say, if we're not true to ourselves we will remain uninteresting.

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Alex Mathers's avatar

yup well said

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Bryan Dijkhuizen's avatar

Currently I struggle so much with getting my thoughts on paper. I almost feel forced by myself.

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Alex Mathers's avatar

Keep going

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Blossom's avatar

🙌🏽✨💖 Thank you for your words.

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Ebere Christian's avatar

My personal opinion and past experiences will always make my write-up unique.

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